I kind of just realized that my last two posts here were kind of doom and gloom. I do want to clarify that even though things with Taylor aren’t so hot at school (but she has loved her weekly visits to her old school-go figure) she’s been doing really well at home.
Lately it seems like Taylor’s need (or want) for independence has been on the increase. Along with that has also been an increase in testing her boundaries. =)
She cracked me up the other day… she was wanting to sit on the arm of the couch…a no-no in our house (even for her). Doug and I were repeatedly telling her to sit on the couch. She’d slide off the arm onto the couch, then watch us to see if we were paying attention, then she’d smile like she was Sneaky McSneakerson and sit right back up on the arm.
It was all I could do not to laugh. Even Doug had a hard time not laughing. It was right about then that she threw us a curve. She was back on the arm of the couch and Doug said “Taylor, sit down, now.”
Taylor looks him dead in the eye and says “No!” Then dissolves in to giggles, but still stayed on the arm! I lost it! My sweet, (mostly) non verbal little girl was giving us some verbal attitude!
If it had been Aaron or Emma, they probably would have gotten in trouble. But we were caught so off guard with this we didn’t really know how to react without sending the wrong signal. We did make her move off of the couch, but praised her for her talking. It was kind of a difficult decision…I was proud of her even though she was being openly defiant!
Later that night when we put her to bed we told her goodnight and she responded with “Bye!” My heart melted right there.
Instances like this give me so much hope. It’s days like that one that make the bad days seem “not so bad”. Days like that make all the heartache and struggle worth every second.
Progress is there. Some days it’s small, other days it’s huge. But it’s always there. I can’t wait to see what else she has in store for us.